I couldn't agree more with this. There are churches and other "Christian" groups that feel they must appeal to the world by being like the world. This is simply wrong. We are called to be in the world but not of the world. We recently heard christian music group in a local church that played loud music (don't get me wrong, loud is not wrong), with no message. If there was any real singing it was unintelligible. Simply screaming.
The worst thing is that if we pattern our youth groups after the ROW (rest of world) we then expose our own children to the problems it brings.